How do you manage your fear going through everyday life?
Face it and embrace it. My biggest fear was being alone, doing things alone, going places alone. I hated the idea of it, made me sick to my stomach. I always had boyfriends because of it, I “needed” someone all the time. But then I started hating the idea of not doing things I wanted or going places I wanted to go to because I was alone. Six months ago I broke up with my boyfriend, to be single and alone. It was terrifying for me to face it but I love a good challenge and I had hope that I could overcome my fear. People do it all the time, so why can’t I? I’m braver than some people I know, so of course I could do it. I took baby steps from that point forward. Instead of traveling the world all alone, I thought it would be wise to sit in a restaurant by myself first, then go to some new place local by myself, then started traveling out of town by myself, getting a hotel by myself and the list just keeps getting better and better. Six months in and I can honestly say I no longer have a fear of being alone. There is nothing lonely about being alone. Embrace your fears, face them and learn to love them, if possible.
I think I need to do something like you mentioned. Actually rent a hotel and be on my own. Great ideas.
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Thank you. It’s so liberating!
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What a great story. Thx for sharing!
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Thank you! 🙂
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I agree that there is nothing lonely in being alone in our own company. I like eating alone in restaurants, I like enjoying the moment in silence anywhere. You should be very proud of yourself! Good job!
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